Monday, October 09, 2006

Elusive Equality

Women continuously seek equality with men. There are many sayings coined to the effect “What a man can do, a woman can do better” I do agree and in fact many women are testimony that women are as brainy/excellent as men if not better. But there are some things women do that make me wonder if in fact the woman is an inferior being or what it is that could be wrong with them. Without further ado;


I have very few CLOSE female friends for this very reason. Women love to backstab others. If you hear someone under estimating the achievements of another, it is likely to be a woman. Women will backstab anyone, their sisters, mothers, friends, best of friends et cetera. They have little regard for friendships and why you cannot backstab your best friend because they are your best friends. Enough said


There are in fact some women who think the power is in the vagina. They have no regard to common working hard theories. If at all the promotion is held up by your thighs, common sense dictates that you move to another company. I mean if your company doesn’t appreciate your hard work and your boss thinks the only way you can move up is by sharing a leg, move!

Do not punish the rest of the female folk in make men believe the only way women can move up is by sharing a leg. Shame! Shame! Shame!


There is a verse in the bible that says “Gossip is so tasty, how we love to swallow it” Nothing justifies gossip whoever is involved in it. Gossip only creates enemies it has never ended well. Avoid it the same way you avoid fire. Gossip of especially your friends should end. Many boyfriends will admit having to listen to endless gossip of her chic’s girlfriends. I wonder if that makes him love them or hate them, you make him curious.


Gosh! The only time you sleep with your mates’ boyfriend or husband when you are trapped in a house, which has collapsed, and you have a few hours remaining and you both share a dream that you would love to die in ecstasy. I know a couple of girls who share their friend’s man to prove they are prettier or whatever shit they want to prove? If it’s your mate’s, sister’s boyfriend, leave him!

INCEST is a crime in Kenya. So you are not allowed to have your brother. In the same light, respect your sisters in law. When your brother wanted to marry he probably did not ask for your permission, in the same breath, you cannot continue accusing your sisters –in- law of poisoning, witchcraft and whatever else you wish to. It is wrong to cause your asisters-in-law a nightmarish life just because they married your brother.

Whether she trapped him, is a standard two drop out, dresses shao, misplaced dental formula, as fat as a bull, your brother chose her to be the wife. Stop it!!!!

Women are their own worst enemies. It cannot be overemphasized. And that keeps women down, pulls them to the bottom and they then blame men and lack of laws to protect them.

Be wise, stop being the ordinary woman by at least stopping any of the above.

I am reading this book The Diary of a Manhattan Call Girl now. Interesting stuff.


  1. I totally agree with you, we are our own worst enemies. And as for horizontal appointments, thats a definate NO NO NO....
    about SIL I do feel very sorry for them, and we dont even imagine that we shall at one point be in the same position of being a SIL.

    I have only one female close friend.

    Ps: I tried to read that book but gave up a few pages. Tell me when you are through if I should give it another try

  2. I am really feeling you on the backstabbing and gossiping thing. This is why, like you I have only a handful of genuine women friends. It is exhausting dealing with the petty cattiness within the girlie circles. I remember one particular girl friend who would always have something nasty to tell us about all her other friends. Then strangely, when you saw her with these friends of hers, they would always seem really tight and close together. Me, I prefer the quieter life. My few girlie pals now are real diamonds and I treasure them.

  3. Sup shiroh !thx for passin my blog and wishing me a happy b/day !

    I sooo agree with you about the women and SIL issue...and just like you, I have less than 6 female friends..I tend to keep away from them...we are a catty speciesI tell ya !

    Will check the book out..the title itself is intersting as it is !

  4. yes you have all the points lined up..are you a couselor?

    About making way to the top,i do reserve that...look, women now days are evry clever creatures...infact i have a feeling they are more clever than men..

    the only problem is that they take things for granted and the thinking that there is no need to struggle a lot since she will get married and have afood on the table till her death bed...

    Taking things lightly spoils them..if you find a serious lady, you may never talk to her till you grave,,...they don`t smile for the sake of it...

    I had a friend whom i asked for her ideas about the achievements of mathaai the Nobel peace prize winner 2004,a kenyan lady, and she said, she has no "business"...she continued....her husband is a bore thats why she puts herself too much on books....

    Now such statements scare even a fly....
    Women are intelligent humans that men cannot reach...they only have to be serious in everything they do and think..

  5. Well written!If women dealt with their divisions, they would rule the world!
    anyway gotta go!Have anarchy to orchestrate!

  6. one time, a woman scribe in ancient babylon sat down and wrote an article on the same problem ... if you can read sumerian cuneiform, you can find the clay tablet in the Baghdad museum ... seems some female issues are unsolvable!

  7. Its a sad fact that women are indeed their own enemies, its why fratenities like Bohemian Grove, Freemasons etc have exsited since time antiquity and will continue to do so.

    As for having female friends, I have NONE! I learnt me some lessons the hard way especially when it came to trusting female friends around your significant other aaaand I am glad to announce that after going through the 12 step programme I am now a reformed more gossip and more drama..

    Ps - Try and pick up "Call Me Elizabeth" its a true story and a brilliant read!

  8. I totally feel you gal. Whoever told women that their V is a ticket to promotion was absolutely wrong and those who think in that line should feel ashamed. If you cant promote me because of my hardwork then I dont deserve you. My sweat my Cheo (position)

  9. women. I only got what three pals who i run to with absolutes and they too to me. We do have an agreement though, we dont discuss the men in our lives as in he said and did form experience apana.
    Goign up horizontally no thanks will pass.

  10. Women are guilty as charged.
    They can be your strongest allies, or worst enemies. When you find close, trustworthy friends you've got to hang onto them 'cause they're few and far between. I don't know who lied to us that in order for us to succeed or look good, we must put somebody down. It gets so petty, instead of criticizing ideas people take it personal attacking someone's hairstyle, clothes, or husband. Our divisiveness works against us politically and socially undermining our intelligence.